I'm in the 'not enough' camp after having it blatantly pointed out to me in a coaching session. It's odd being told you're literally standing in your own way and actively avoiding situations where you might succeed because at some point your child brain put two and two together and got five. But at least once you're aware of it, you can do something about it, even though it's hard! A great read, thank you! :)
Thanks Izzy! Totally - being aware and noticing these things is a really corrective step, and the rest will come with time (but you're right, it's hard!)
I'm in the 'not enough' camp after having it blatantly pointed out to me in a coaching session. It's odd being told you're literally standing in your own way and actively avoiding situations where you might succeed because at some point your child brain put two and two together and got five. But at least once you're aware of it, you can do something about it, even though it's hard! A great read, thank you! :)
Thanks Izzy! Totally - being aware and noticing these things is a really corrective step, and the rest will come with time (but you're right, it's hard!)
Very interesting, and it reminded me of a pattern I had and managed to break. Will say more soon!
Thanks Terry, really happy it resonated.